So get yourself a really, really good one… *wink wink*
By Anka Radakovich
What kind of guy is most likely to give women the best orgasms? Can the answer be pinned down to a specific personality trait, a certain sexual behavior — or perhaps both?
Thanks to a new research, we can all have more orgasms.
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“The evolution of the female orgasm in humans and its role in romantic relationships is poorly understood,” says a study just published in Socioaffective Neuroscience & Psychology called “Testing the mate-choice hypothesis of the female orgasm: disentangling traits and behaviors.”
We love studies on why women have orgasms and why they don’t!
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According to the background and objective statements, the study was undertaken for the following reason:
“The evolution of the female orgasm in humans and its role in romantic relationships is poorly understood. Whereas the male orgasm is inherently linked to reproduction, the female orgasm is not linked to obvious reproductive or survival benefits. It also occurs less consistently during penetrative sex than does the male orgasm. Mate-choice hypotheses posit that the wide variation in female orgasm frequency reflects a discriminatory mechanism designed to select high-quality mates.
We aimed to determine:
1. Whether women report that their orgasm frequency varies between partners.
2. Whether this variation reflects mates’ personal characteristics.
3. Whether this variation reflects own and partner sexual behavior during intercourse.”
In order to test their hypothesis, researchers chose a sample of 103 single women to complete the 71-minute survey, explaining that, “In order to avoid bias in the evaluation of sexual partners, we recruited single women, as those in a relationship may feel obliged to rate their current partner more favorably than is strictly true.”
The survey sought to compare the personality traits and sexual behaviors of “low orgasm partners” vs. “high orgasm partners” to see what differed between the two categories of men.
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According to the results, it turns out that, “How often women experienced orgasm as a result of sexual intercourse was related to their partner’s income, self-confidence, and how attractive he was,” as well as that, “orgasm intensity was also related to how attracted they were to their partners.”
In other words, cute, rich guys give women super orgasms.
When the results were broken down further into specific character traits, the following 6 characteristics were present in men most likely give women orgasms:
- Humor
- Attractiveness
- Creativity
- Emotional warmth
- Faithfulness
- Body odor pleasantness
Their partner’s sense of humor not only predicted his self-confidence, the study found, but also predicted women’s “propensity to initiate sex, how often they had sex, and it enhanced their orgasm frequency in comparison to other partners.”
So make us laugh and we turn into nymphos!
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The study also identified the traits in men that most predict how often women want to initiate getting it on with them. Those were “motivation, intelligence, focus, and determination.”
Additionally, men who were determined to be more likely to bring their partners to orgasm were more those who engaged in these sexual activities and behaviors:
- Focusing on female pleasure
- Communicating about sexual positions
- Using sex toys
- Performing oral sex on their female partner
- Stimulate their partner’s clitoris
In particular regard to stimulation of the clitoris — which any man should certainly do if he wants to get laid again — the study notes that “It could be this activity that distinguishes ‘high-orgasm’ and ‘low-orgasm’ partners, as well as personal characteristics.”
So dudes, remember to keep rubbing down there so that everyone can have their happy ending.
Anka Radakovich is a legendary sex columnist, certified sexologist, sex educator, screenwriter, and author. She is currently a columnist for British GQ and has written for Marie Claire, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Harper’s Bazaar, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Men’s Journal, Seventeen, Glamour, Maxim and more.
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This article was originally published at Sexpert.com. Reprinted with permission from the author.
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