Here's what men think about you making the first unofficial move.
For women living in the 21st century, it’s totally normal to be a go-getter and approach that cutie eyeing you from across the bar. If he’s cute, why not, right?
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Well, it’s not always the case. And sometimes, it takes a lot to muster up the courage to go up to him out of the blue and start flirting.
After polling every honest guy I know, I was surprised to find that there were an array of preferences when it comes to what men think when women flirt. They weren’t all as stuck in the 1950s as I had thought (though, unfortunately, some still were).
Instead, as I’m pleasantly surprised to report that there were plenty of men who agreed that a woman making the first unofficial move and approaching a guy at a bar isn’t only a welcomed change, it’s downright sexy.
1. It’s an indicator of her confidence.
— Cole, 29
2. It’s super-attractive.
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— Steven, 25
3. It’s a little too intimidating.
— Ryan, 23
4. It’s hard, especially if I’m not into her.
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— Matthew, 30
5. It’s one of the sexiest things a woman can do.
— Tyler, 27
6. It intrigues me.
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— Phil, 28
7. It’s a giant turn-on when gender roles are reversed.
— James, 25
8. I would highly welcome it.
— Mike, 24
