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Here's what men think about you making the first unofficial move.<\/strong><\/p>\n For women living in the 21st century, it’s totally normal to be a go-getter and approach that cutie eyeing you from across the bar. If he’s cute, why not, right?<\/p>\n via GIPHY<\/p>\n Well, it’s not always the case. And sometimes, it takes a lot to muster up the courage to go up to him out of the blue and start flirting.<\/p>\n After polling every honest guy I know, I was surprised to find that there were an array of preferences when it comes to what men think when women flirt. They weren’t all as stuck in the 1950s as I had thought (though, unfortunately, some still were).<\/p>\n Instead, as I’m pleasantly surprised to report that there were plenty of men who agreed that a woman making the first unofficial move and approaching a guy at a bar isn’t only a welcomed change, it’s downright sexy.<\/p>\n 1. It’s an indicator of her confidence.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2014 Cole, 29<\/p>\n 2. It’s super-attractive.<\/strong><\/p>\n via GIPHY<\/p>\n \u2014 Steven, 25<\/p>\n 3. It’s a little too intimidating.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2014 Ryan, 23<\/p>\n 4. It’s hard, especially if I’m not into her.<\/strong><\/p>\n via GIPHY<\/p>\n \u2014 Matthew, 30<\/p>\n 5. It’s one of the sexiest things a woman can do.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2014 Tyler, 27<\/p>\n 6. It intrigues me.<\/strong><\/p>\n via GIPHY<\/p>\n \u2014 Phil, 28<\/p>\n 7. It’s a giant turn-on when gender roles are reversed.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2014 James, 25<\/p>\n 8. I would highly welcome it.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2014 Mike, 24<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Here's what men think about you making the first unofficial move. For women living in the 21st century, it’s totally normal to be a go-getter and approach that cutie eyeing you from across the bar. If he’s cute, why not, right? via GIPHY Well, it’s not always the case. And sometimes, it takes a lot to muster up the courage to go up to him out of the blue and start flirting. After polling every honest guy I know, I was surprised to find that there were an array of preferences when it comes to what men think when women <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2],"class_list":["post-10","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating","tag-dating","has_thumb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dategd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}